what to wear for a fancy events (no heels or dresses!)

I admire anyone who can wear heels comfortably for longer than 3 hours. Personally, I can't, and haven't yet mastered how to walk on anything other than concrete. Don't even get me started on cobblestone.

Other days you just don't feel very dress-like - they definitely have more potential for wardrobe malfunctions.

If you have a fancy event coming up, and don't want to wear heels or a dress, keep reading for three outfits made for you!

collared shirt + dark wash jeans + oxfords

pros: lots of movement, can be dressed down for hanging out after, looks good w hair up or down

cons: can get hot with a tank under, collars + jackets are difficult, half tuck falls out

wear to: business events, conferences, after-work meetings

details: shirt - hollister, jeans - american eagle, oxfords - dv by dolce vita

A few months back, I had a wedding, and wore this. I know, a shirt and pants to a wedding? But this was a special occasion, as I was working as a photography assistant, and needed maximum movement, while still looking put together.

I was able to put my hair into a ponytail (this was pre-lob) while maintaining the look, and didn't risk wardrobe malfunctions. 

I considered wearing flats at first, but decided I didn't want to risk the embarrassment of losing a shoe while running around, so I went with oxfords instead. Fun fact - the shoes are called oxfords, and the details on it are called broguing. Although it seems they're somewhat interchangeable? 

black chiffon tee + black pom-pom trim shorts + leopard d'orsay flats

pros: doesn't show stain easily, slimming, accessorize to your hearts content

cons: a lot of black, flats can slip off, cannot sneak due to accessories clicking

wear to: girls' night out, eating out, date night

details: shirt - nordstrom (lush), shorts - urban outfitters (ecote), flats - steve madden

Some days, all black is the only way to go. I love how chic black on black is, and the leopard flats keep the outfit from being too dark. I would encourage lots of accessories in this outfit to make it more visually interesting as well.

I'd been in love with these leopard print flats ever since I first saw them on Youtuber Eva Gutowski's Instagram, and I finally got them during Black Friday last year! Steve Madden always has these surprise sale cards they give out in store, and I happened to get one for 30% off. Unfortunately, the shoes hurt my feet when I wear them for too long. They ripped up the backs of my heels very bad the first time, and it was slightly better the second time I coaxed myself into wearing them, but I still haven't been able to spend a whole day in them.

pink maxi shirt + white cropped sweater + t-strap sandals

pros: unshaved legs are ok, skirt flows behind you like a goddess, ultimate twirling power

cons: tripping is likely, wind can blow the skirt the wrong way, hard to dance

wear to: garden party, brunch, daytime date

details: skirt - forever21, sweater - h&m, sandals - sam edelman

While technically, a skirt is very similar to a dress, with a maxi skirt, you have no possibility of flashing anyone, and wardrobe malfunctions are limited. The flowy aspect can be challenging - it'll either flow behind you as you walk, or the wind will blow it so it sticks to the back of your legs in a not completely flattering way. 

In the summer, I swap out the sweater for a thinly striped crop top. This also dresses it down, and makes it perfect for school or work!

I wore this outfit to a ballet, and it was absolutely perfect. It was in the city at night, so it was a little chilly outside and in the theater, but the skirt covered my legs and kept them decently warm. It looked great with a tan leather jacket. 

Hopefully these outfits have proven you don't need to wear heels or a dress in order to look put together for special occasions! Do you have anything coming up you'd be able to wear outfits like these to? What's your go-to special occasion uniform?

Let me know in the comments!

xx

Angelina

p.s. have nothing even vaguely fancy? check out how you can get almost new clothes for super cheap here! 

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my first time modeling + how to get started with your own clothing company

For a few years now, I've been into photography, and by association, a little bit of modeling as well. Modeling has always been an add-on, and it's something I'm not as good at, but happy to do.

Recently, it just so happened that someone I was shooting with started designing her own clothes! Referred to as S in this post, she asked me to model for her, here are some photos from our shoot as well as what I learned, after the jump.

We found this amazing roof top when we were shooting, and I love how well it goes together with the prints. It's sort of a juxtaposition between more rural and wild, and urban and edgy. I was surprised to find such a unique location; where I live is quite tame, and I hadn't expected it. It just goes to show what amazing things you'll find if you keep your eyes open!

The tops of parking garages also make great locations, especially if you get there at a time when there aren't many cars. Just be careful of your surroundings - always. I've seen way too many movies with kidnappings in parking garages!

While walking, peek into alleyways - sometimes you'll get a great surprise! I fell in love with this little nook we found, it looked like something you'd see in Greece.

Later on, I met up with a larger group of people, mostly her friends. We walked around the city, and took some photos there as well. It wasn't as productive as our one-on-one shoot, but still quite fun, and I had a chance to meet a lot of lovely creatives.

There were a few helpful lessons I learned from this experience, both from a model and a designer's perspective. I'd love to share them with you, and hopefully inspire any of you considering modeling or designing to get started!

1. Connections from one experience can lead to something completely different!
When I met S, it was because she contacted me wanting to do a photo shoot. I was very comfortable with taking photos, as I have a lot of experience in this field, but I hadn't expected we'd click as much as we did, and she'd ask me to model for her.
Grabbing a coffee with someone whose style you admire at work or school may lead to opportunities you'd never consider later on! Of course, this is different from taking advantage of others, or going into situations expecting to get something out of them.

2. Likewise, pay attention to what people say/do, it can come in handy later on
In S's case, by meeting me, a stranger on the internet, she was able to have one more model, and photographer as well. I hadn't asked to be part of her clothing label, but when she noticed I was somewhat decent at modeling, it was helpful for her brand.
If one of your friends consistently posts high quality Instagram photos or has a talent for picking the best songs to accompany videos, consider how their talents might be used in a business sense! They could potentially be your photographer and videographer.

3. Be flexible - assume at least one thing will go wrong when you first start
At the shoot, one of the shorts didn't fit a model - it was too big and kept sliding down. Luckily, S had brought shoelaces, which she used as a makeshift belt. We were also planning to have a beach bonfire, but that didn't happen because someone else had arrived earlier and snagged the spot already.
However, we were flexible, and walked around the houses near the beach instead. We found an interesting location we otherwise wouldn't have.

4. Make sure everyone you're bringing really has a purpose
A few of the girls who came to model were lovely people, but they didn't really have experience with modeling. When you're first starting a company, and trying to get the word out, pictures can make or break you. It should be a priority to make sure your models really know what they're doing and represent the look you want. Of course, the clothes are what truly matters, and it's important to check that they fit your models well. Lastly, a photographer who knows the ins and outs of lighting, composition, and portraiture is a must. There's no point on having amazing models and gorgeous clothes only to have an amateur photographer butcher the lighting.
It's like the Triangle of Health, but for fashion/design; you need clothes, models, and photography.

5. Even if nothing goes as planned, you still have that experience
When starting out, it's easy to feel discouraged, and want to quit if nothing is going your way. The model had a breakout the day of, someone accidentally spilled on the dress, the camera ran out of battery, whatever you can think of. It's important to remember that even if you don't get a single usable photo out of the shoot, you've still learned what to do, and what not to do.
This knowledge can be applied to a future shoot, which will undoubtedly turn out much better.



Are any of you thinking about starting modeling or designing? Do any of you already model or design? I'd love to hear all about it in the comments below.

xx Angelina

p.s if you're wondering how I got my white hair, read the first part in the series here!

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where to get cute, cheap stickers + redbubble review

(Note: Some of this post has to do with feminism. I recognize that not all people identify with this idea, and that is fine. However, I request that you keep any negative comments about feminism to yourself. Thank you for respecting my views.) 

Recently, I was scrolling on Tumblr when I saw these super cute stickers promoting feminism, and I just had to get them! After Googling around, I decided to buy them from RedBubble. After the jump, read about my experience, and what I did with my stickers.

Redbubble is a website where artists submit designs, and you can buy them printed on stickers, laptop and phone cases, and almost anything you can think of. You could probably have your whole apartment decked out in one Redbubble print.

The stickers range from $2-$4 usually, but after 6, they become 50% off. Much more reasonably priced then. Shipping was about $2.50, which I find pretty overpriced considering it took about a week and a half to deliver, the shipping address was quite close to where I live, and it comes in a small, unpadded envelope. As a reference, when I ship clothes I've sold online, it's about $2.10 for a large padded envelope (8 oz - about 2 iPhone 5's).

They arrive in twos, like pictured above. I'm kind of tempted to order an odd number to see how they print them. 

Some of them are cut closer to the design, while others have a large white space around them. 

The material is smooth and seems like it would hold up even if wet. It's definitely not vinyl though, so I wouldn't recommend putting this on anything that regularly is wet. 

I didn't like how the borders were differently sized on each sticker, so I went ahead and trimmed most of them off. It also saves a lot more space so I can cram more of them onto my laptop. 

The stickers seem somewhat tough to remove, so I first laid everything out on my laptop the way I was planning to stick them on. 

I have to say I really like how unique they make my laptop look now, although the proximity of "Love Your Body" to the Apple logo is sort of bothering me. A tip for future use would be to keep your laptop on, so you know where the logo is. 

Personally, I'd love to receive stickers like these as a birthday or holiday present. They're on the cheap side, but still show you've thought about their likes and dislikes and really know them as a person. 

Are you planning to get any stickers from RedBubble or other sites in the future? Will they be for yourself or others? Let me know in the comments!

xx

Angelina

(Disclaimer: I was not reimbursed in anyway for my stickers from Redbubble. All opinions are my own). 

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paris photo journal

I've been in love with Europe for a while, and I was so excited when I finally got a chance to go last summer! Since I'm hoping to go back in a few years, I was looking through my pictures, and wanted to share them with you guys, as well as give some advice on where to take photos in Paris. Next time, I'll be covering London as well.

My favorite thing about Paris was how there were amazing places in every corner. When I took this picture, it was because we had gotten tired of walking in the heat, and turned off the main road to look for somewhere to sit. We found this amazing courtyard, and of course, I started taking pictures. Within a few minutes though, the residents became a little peeved, and told we had to leave because it was a private courtyard. Oh well.

I would definitely recommend going to Sacre Coeur in the morning to beat the rush (although it was still pretty busy when I went). The church is very crowded, so I wouldn't try to actually pray or use it as an actual church, and many tourists were taking pictures inside even though you weren't supposed to. 

Another upside of going in the morning is the fog that covers the city is so dreamlike and makes for the best photos. You could also probably go in the late afternoon while the sun is setting, but I'm not sure if the church is open then. 

Notre Dame is another church that you definitely can't miss. We originally planned to attend mass there, but we were still jet-lagged, and couldn't get up early enough. I really regret not making it, but being in the church was close to that experience. It was a lot quieter than Sacre-Coeur, although there was a much heavier flow of tourists. 

The stained glass was to die for, and they made some amazing silhouettes photos. If only I could've used my silhouette!

At the time, Sainte Chapelle was under renovation, and not very impressive. Most photos make the ceilings look very tall, and they weren't actually. It may have been because of the renovation, but I'm not sure they could have changed the level of the floor somehow. Anyways, I was a little underwhelmed, especially having seen Notre Dame's stained glass already. 

When we bought tickets for Sainte Chapelle, it was only a few more euros to also see Le Conciergerie, a prison where Marie Antoinette was held before her execution. I think it was more interesting than Sainte Chapelle, and the architecture was amazing. They had some model cells of what it would've been like for peasants as opposed to nobles - I've always been curious about prisons, executions, and death throughout history, so that was one of my favorite parts. 

If you're going to Paris, you have to spend a good amount of your time at art museums of course. We spent a day at the Louvre, but it wasn't really my kind of art, and I had a terrible headache from the lack of air flow in the museum. You can only look at so many paintings of the Crucifixion, nobles, and nude deities. The Louvre used to be used as a palace before the French Revolution (but don't quote me on that), and they weren't very big on having many windows then. 

I enjoyed the Musée d'Orsay infinite times more. The fact that it was an old train station gives it more character, and fits perfectly with the more modern style of artwork displayed in it. At one end, there's a giant clock face that I'd been wanting to take a picture in front of for ages. When you look through it, you can see Sacre Coeur and Montmartre, which is the highest point in the city. 

Later at night, we went out for a walk near the Louvre. There's a mini Arc de Triomphe, called the Arc de Triomphe du Carrousel, and the Tuileries are a very lovely walk. It was about to rain, as you can tell by the overcast sky, which was a great change from the scorching sun we walked under all day. There's something I really love about the way the air feels right before it's about to rain. We don't get a lot of rain where I live now. 

It's incredible that there's a city with so much history; almost every building is older than the U.S! The architecture plus the gardens made me feel like I was in a Jane Austen novel. 

There was so much beauty everywhere. We stayed in someone's flat through AirBnb (highly recommend, it saves you a lot of money!), and their building had gorgeous lighting throughout the day. One time when we were going out to dinner, I finally got a chance to set up this portrait, and it's been one of my favorites since then. I'm in love with how soft the lighting is, and the French-ness of it all.

I'm very interested in art, so visiting Giverny was a no brainer. We took the RER to Vernon, then rented bikes for the day, and biked to Giverny. It's all flat, and not very far - so much better than taking a taxi. You really feel like a local, and the countryside is too beautiful to experience from inside a car. 

Monet's garden is very popular, so I would get there as early as possible. You'll be able to get better shots of the famous Japanese bridge, as well as enjoy the garden without screaming kids and sweaty tourists. The nearby town is perfect for lunch, and we had a sublime (and reasonable!) meal at a small restaurant. 

Some places I didn't get to go to/didn't get very good pictures were:

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-The Place Du Tertre: I'm not very comfortable pointing my camera in other people's faces, particularly artists, so I wasn't able to get any photos. The atmosphere is very lively, and there are many talented artists who will draw your portrait!

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-Shakespeare and Co Bookstore: This bookstore is amazing. It's pretty small, and you're not allowed to take photos inside, although I did sneak a few with my phone. Most of the books are in English, and there are several nooks for reading. One has notes from people all over the world stuck on it. If you have a spare afternoon, I would suggest spending it reading here. 

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-Les Puces Saint-Ouen: Les Puces are a collection of different flea markets in the Porte de Cligancourt. The area is a little sketchy, so make sure to keep track of your belongings, and carry smaller bills. When you first get off of the subway stop, you see a smaller market that sells copies of designer bags and sunglasses. This is not the flea market. Keep following the swarm of people, and you'll know when you see it! There are different markets for different things - some are for furniture, art, or smaller knickknacks you can actually take home in your suitcase. Haggling is okay, but do be polite and don't lowball. Most of the vendors will treat you better if you speak in French/attempt to speak French. 

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-Pere LaChaise Cemetery: On my last day I really wanted to visit the cemetery, but found it was closed. I can't say how wonderful or terrible it was, but many famous people are buried here, including Oscar Wilde. I've heard it's not at all depressing, and very beautiful. 

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-Le Pantheon: I also didn't make it here because of a train delay. Based on pictures though, the architecture seems worth a trip. 

Have you guys been to Paris before? What was your favorite part or where do you want to go the most? Next time, I'll be posting  my photo diary for London.

xx

Angelina